I don't recommend a product just because it is "for" femme or "for" some other sex type. There is not one way to do anything with your anatomy.
This page includes all the products I have reviewed for more feminity. I also recommend some products for those who have had surgery to remove internal genitalia. I don't know which one to recommend, but these products help, and are available as generics at Walgreens or Walgreens-off-line. I have tried to be comprehensive, but I know many other people who are interested in this. I am not a medical doctor, and don't have the training to comment on how one should use any product. There are a lot of products that don't help, or even harm, either physically or emotionally. Femdom has a lot of different options. I'm not saying that every femdom product is best. I'm saying that we can't expect one thing and that a certain combination will give the result we desire. I can't help you with what you are interested in. Please don't try to change my mind. If you can't figure it out, find someone else with a similar interest. I'll do my best to find the right thing.